Ever Heard of Personal Space?

Have you ever heard about personal space?

I really cannot stand it when people are trying to talk to you and they come right in your face!

Please back off a little. It’s even worse when you take a step back from them, giving them a little space, but they take a step even closer.

Sometimes I feel like putting my arm out to say; I can still hear you from arm’s length you know? So you don’t have to come right in my face to talk to me.

The alternative is to start walking round like this guy in South Africa

 So what is personal space?

I didn’t make it up; there is actually a dictionary meaning for it.

It is simply the physical space immediately surrounding someone.

I don’t mean when you are on the train/tube or public transport when you have to stand or sit so close to each other.  I mean when you are out and about or at work or anywhere else, please respect people’s private space.

It’s ok if you are a spouse, kid, family or a cuddly best friend but if you are none of those to me, please don’t stand this close to me or anyone else its simply not right.

Ladies Please Wake Up !

My pipu (People) 

I need help here.

I don’t get ladies  these days

I know a few (Ok more than a few) that wants to marry by all means, seriously?

Not that marriage is not good o, but you are going about it for the wrong reasons.

Its marriage season now, everyone is getting married. Plenty ladies are getting depressed that they are being left behind. 

What is wrong with focusing on “you” during this waiting time?

What is wrong with investing in your life? 

A lot of this “ready to marry ladies” don’t even have good jobs o, yet they want to marry. Most of you are either squatting with friends or family, you don’t know what it means to live alone or pay bills.

Please who wants to marry a liability?

It doesn’t matter what job you do or what you do just be able to look after yourself financially before looking for a man to marry.

Dating sef won’t work if he is the only one working and you are just home all the time.

My friend, he will find another working class girl and you will be history.

Now I know the job market is more than difficult in Nigeria but there are other things you can do to make money.

A lot of people think leaving Nigeria will make them successful. Forget it o, if you don’t make it in Nigeria, it will be hard to make it anywhere else. This applies to gents and ladies.

And no let me hear you say its cos I’m abroad that I can say that.

Yes I am abroad and very much in touch with peeps back home.

The opportunities out there are vast, as in too many “easy” ways of making money with low start-up costs too. Send me a mail if you want some. Only serious minded hustlers o, no quick money scheme anywhere, you work hard and hustle and you definitely will make money.

But really this post is for the ladies, please invest in yourself. Position yourself well. Don’t do follow follow wey no get money! Those friends will leave you and move on to the next happening/successful babe if they realize you worth nothing. (Story for another day)

Stop belittling yourself, carry yourself with respect, position yourself "strategically" and love will find you.