I mean ladies. Ladies that are old enough to be married or be in a kind of relationship
I see a lot of near 30 or over still acting like they are 21. Ok o, sit down there and hope your fairy tale prince charming is coming.
I am all for having taste and going for the best , don't get me wrong. Because you are over 30 does not mean you should just settle for anyone, NO. But when its starts getting to the stage where you don't have realistic expectations... girls, please get a grip.
You know you are single and a guy is trying to chat you up but what does he get? Abuse! Some girls no dey try at all. A girl once said to a guy on a date, " Gosh you are so short". I was like ehn? How did it come out of her mouth. This girl is still single o. The so called short guy is now married, happily married in fact.
And Miss Single Lady is currently still single.
Give the brothers a chance to at least try, stop shutting them out and still complain that there are no good guys.
I am tired of hearing girls say there are no good guys out there and guys say the same too.
So who is right or wrong? I can't answer that question but here is what I think.
Personal opinion o, before you shoot me. Feel free to share yours.
Some girls have suffered, struggled and eventually made something out of their lives so its only fair that they get someone who works hard too and not someone that want to rely on them. Or at least someone who is prepared to work hard. But men of nowadays.....chai, there are some very very lazy men out there. Same way men think women wants a ready made man, some women think same too.
So who is right, again, personal opinion, no one should rely on any
one. Be your own person. Make your own money and support each other.
You hear?
Guys out there, stop looking for a perfect lady, because Bunmi is the only perfect one out there and I have been taken..... :) Just joking o. No one is perfect.
Seriously, you are not perfect either, so why slag ladies off for being too short, too fat, small chest, small bum.
News flash! she can't change any of those things. Ok, she can try and lose weight but you get the gist.
Cut the ladies some slack.
Some of you guys would have slept with everything in skirt and yet you will want to clean woman....there is God o!
Here is my 2 cents, A good relationship is when someone accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future. ( not my quote o, found it somewhere online)
Finito
Bunmi what did we do to you nooow? I feel you though, been there done that.
ReplyDeleteMay God help us jare.
ReplyDeleteword!!! point well noted
ReplyDeletePlease tell the girls o. Give us a chance at least before you write us off.
ReplyDeleteAll you anonymous people, Ayam watching you in 3D o.
ReplyDelete@Solomon Adebayo, God will help us all
Harsh truth... Lobatan!!!
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